Why don’t Danes think about the meaning of life?

monty-pythons-the-meaning-of-lifeA few weeks ago I filmed some interviews for a couple of my friends, Jon and Olga, for a lecture on Danish consciousness and culture that they were planning. Jon and Olga are undertaking an ongoing exploration of the postmodern cultural predicament and values—pluralism, individualism, and anti-modernism—finding all kinds of means to get more conscious of who we are. This time they wanted to document that the postmodern “flatland” thinking (overly egalitarian) and the psychological orientation towards life, isn’t just their own random accusation, but has become a part of mainstream culture.

So, we grabbed a camera and walked the streets of Copenhagen for the interviews, since you can´t get more postmodern than Danish! We were curious to hear the answers of perhaps the biggest questions possible, such as:

• What is the meaning of life?
• When you lie on your deathbed what would you like to be remembered for?
• What is a good person?

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Lily Allen & the Gen-Y Condition

Many Americans haven’t heard of the young Gen-Y pop singer Lily Allen, but my British compatriots tell me she’s huge in the UK–right up there with that other poster girl for the state of our generation, Amy Winehouse. I discovered her a few months ago and still find her song, “The Fear,” simultaneously highly catchy and slightly disturbing. See the lyrics here. Check it out below:

Lily Allen – The Fear from Alex Gilbert on Vimeo.

(If you can’t play this vid in your country, try searching your local YouTube affiliate.)

Evolutionary Ethics

evolutionIn there were ever such a thing as the Billboard Top 10 Spiritual Terms, one word that I would be surprised to see make the charts is morality.  Apart from young Christians wearing pro-abstinence purity rings, public affirmations of morality (i.e., not just saying “war is bad” but saying “________ is great!”) do not seem particularly hip these days. And largely for good reason. But I want morality to be hip again.

As Jeremy and Tineke’s blogs wonderfully described, traditional understandings of what is ethical have become seriously out of date. Most contemporary expectations of what family, nation and life should look like come from worldviews and life circumstances those of us in the developed, educated world no longer inhabit; for example, most progressively educated people no longer believe in a mythic God up in the sky and most people in developed nations have contraception, which calls for a new understanding of the moral implications of having sex. Read the rest of this entry »

On Responsibility

statue of liberty     “Wow, I love this place!” I thought as an eighteen-year-old newcomer to New York City, having spent the majority of my youth in the quiet nooks and crannies of the Pacific Northwest of the USA, “It’s almost like people come here… and then just never grow up!!”
      It really was an epiphany of some sort. To find grown-ups who had long ago finished school and who were now living colorful, kooky, childish urban lives was something new altogether to me. I had often equated life after college with the end of fun and the beginning of something long, gray, and mechanical, and was relieved to find that this wasn’t always the case. The idea of seriousness seemed silly to me back then, and it was a relief to meet adult after adult in New York City who didn’t seem to take anything very seriously at all: a job could be something that you just did between parties and, come on, family? Relationships? Long-term goals? Bo-ring. Old news. The prospect of a life of complete freedom from such constraints was thrilling.
            During college, I had deep yearnings to do something of meaning and to explore and experience all that I could, but it seemed to me the easiest way to start doing that was to simply let go, be crazy and to have fun while getting to know people who were out really living in the world in ways that I used to only read about in novels. New York seemed like a melting pot full of personality types colored with that vibration and it literally felt like entering an oasis — and it was for a little while — but at a very deep level it often left me feeling uneasy, confused and restless. Read the rest of this entry »

YouTube, MySpace and the future of OurSpace

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I often find myself in a state of awe over the wonders of modern technology—video chatting with friends halfway around the globe, exploring slot canyons in Utah with GoogleMaps and having instant answers to nearly any question on Wikipedia—it’s just amazing! But, with all the increased connection, education and enjoyment that have come with modern media, a lot of challenges have come with it as well.

Chief among them is that modern media has conditioned us to think that we’re a lot better and more important than we actually are. Just think about the psychology induced by youTube. With a webcam, a couple minutes and a few clicks you can get thousands of people to watch you—not because you’re an impressive filmmaker or because you’ve achieved something significant—but merely because you had that webcam, used those minutes and made those clicks. And then there’s Facebook, where you’ve got all your friends on your scoreboard, you’re featured in the news everyday, and you’re constantly being updated when anyone does anything in relation to you.  Our interactions with such mediums consciously and unconsciously shape who we are. In the words of NYU professor Thomas de Zengotita (he’s also author of the brilliant book Mediated), modern media has given each of us our own little “MeWorld” in which you are always the star, even if your aren’t one. Read the rest of this entry »

Spiritual Transformation Is Not a Psychological Process

ac-photoHere’s a recent quote from spiritual teacher Andrew Cohen that we thought was powerful, thought provoking, and worthy of some serious discussion:

Spiritual Transformation Is Not a Psychological Process

Authentic spiritual or mystical transformation is not a psychological process. Mystical teachings go deeper than that—they refer to the nature of consciousness and the structure of our deepest interiors. They are not just helpful psychological principles and practices invented by the human mind—they point us to the discovery of natural or inherent laws that become apparent to anyone who awakens to the deeper and more subtle dimensions of the interior of the cosmos. All authentic teachings that come from mystical insight are really describing subtle principles, structures, and laws that already exist in your own deepest interior, which is the interior of the evolving cosmos we are living in. Most people don’t awaken in such a way that they are able to perceive these subtle laws or structures, so when they hear mystical teachings they interpret them as injunctions or instructions. And they can be used in that way. But they really represent a deeper and more subtle dimension of reality itself. And when you begin to look at mystical or enlightenment teachings as laws and subtle structures that actually exist, your relationship to them changes significantly. You realize that if these are actual laws or structures, rather than ideas that someone came up with, then they represent an absolute truth, and if there is any integrity in your self and soul, you have to deal with them. So then these principles become the path, and you walk in a straight line. And you will see development occur. If you adhere to them, you can’t go wrong.

Andrew Cohen

A Kosmocentric Generation – Pt. 2

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Recently at Merge we asked some of our friends to respond to the question “Why is it so important that our generation awakens to a Kosmocentric perspective?” It was inspiring to get an inbox full of passionate responses! Some people wrote about the freedom of knowing that beyond the postmodern sense of isolation, many Gen-Yers feel we are one with the Kosmos; others wrote about how a Kosmocentric view can help solve our global problems; and still more wrote about the excitement of awakening to the evolutionary impulse that has driven the universe forward since the big bang and calls each of us to know, see, and become more and more and more. Here is the second batch of responses we received. We’d love to know what you think as well! (To read Part 1 of this blog, click here.) Read the rest of this entry »